Who we are
Ceremonial cup of the sacred vine
The Medicine

Ancient medicine, held in experienced hands.

This retreat is an invitation to meet the sacred vine of the Amazon — in ceremony, in safety, and in the company of people who have given their lives to this work. Our medicine woman carries fifteen years on the medicine path, trained in the Shipibo and Mesoamerican traditions. Around her stands a team that is both trauma-informed and clinically educated — psychotherapists, an integrative health practitioner, bodyworkers, and musicians — present with you in every moment.

Your retreat comes with guidance through careful preparation and intentionality in the weeks before you arrive, and real integration support after you leave. Alongside two sacred ceremonies, you’ll experience cacao ceremony, the traditional temazcal sweat lodge, and a powerful breathwork journey.

You’ll go home renewed — carrying an education in the indigenous traditions this work belongs to, and a family of new friends who shared it with you.

  • Two Vine of the Soul ceremonies
  • Cacao ceremony
  • Temazcal sweat lodge
  • Breathwork journey
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“Luke and Alexa were intensely supportive and helped to create an atmosphere of acceptance and respect that set the stage for an unparalleled retreat experience. No detail was left unchecked and no need, either individual or group, went unfulfilled. It was an experience I will remember to my dying day.”
Roman · Group Retreat
Espacio Khungi, Valle de Bravo, Mexico

Our Sanctuary in the hills.

Khungi is a true spiritual sanctuary — inspired by the ancient wisdom of Tibetan Buddhism and Mesoamerican plant-medicine and shamanic traditions. The land and the buildings on it were created with care: every door, window, and table is of original design, crafted on the premises with local lumber, while Tibetan Rinpoches and master elders of multiple medicine lineages oversaw the architectural and construction process — guiding every step with prayer, intention, and permission.

Fifteen en suite cabins — each with its own bathroom and king-size bed — open onto the hills. The grounds hold a geodesic dome ceremony room, a cozy library anchored by an impressive stone fireplace, a generous dining hall, and a traditional temazcal sweat lodge. Natural pools wait for an afternoon swim. Infinite stars wait for the evening.

The weather is kind — sunny and warm by day, temperate and cool at night — and the land itself is a working work of art. Original masterpieces sit in every corner of the sanctuary, threaded through a sculpture garden by world-renowned visionary artist Renato Dorfman. In every sense, an exceptional place to do deep spiritual work.

A Sample Arc

How our time will flow

Day 01

Arrival

Private airport / hotel pickup in Mexico City. Lunch on arrival. Introductions and orientation. Dinner together, then an evening fire and meditation.

Day 02

Ceremony

Morning movement and meditation. Breakfast. One-on-one consultations with the team. Lunch. Ceremony Skills workshop. Vine of the Soul ceremony that evening.

Day 03

Ceremony

Morning movement and meditation. Breakfast. Integration Circle. Lunch. Elective offerings — bodywork, sound, rest. Vine of the Soul ceremony that evening.

Day 04

Integration

Morning movement and meditation. Breakfast. Temazcal (traditional sweat lodge). Lunch. Cacao Ceremony, Integration Circle, dinner, and closing celebration.

Day 05

Departure

Breakfast and farewells. Optional 2-day Integration Homestay with Luke & Alexa for those who want to land more slowly before traveling home.

integration · Optional

Homestay with Luke & Alexa.

For those who want to land more slowly before traveling home: two restful days at La Fuente, our adobe home on the high mesa above Valle de Bravo. Space for just three guests — quiet, connection, and unhurried integration with the two of us.

  • Daily Turkish steam baths
  • Hyperbaric oxygen chamber
  • Spring-water jacuzzi
  • Connection, rest & deep integration

+ $700 · space for 3 guests · add it on your application

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Upcoming Retreats.

Held by the land.
Held by the medicine.
Held by the people.

Next gatheringNov 2–6, 2026

Vine of the Soul Retreat

Espacio Khungi · lakeside in the highlands.

Five days at our ceremonial sanctuary on the lake. Two Vine of the Soul ceremonies, traditional temazcal, cacao ceremony, and an integration day to land what arrives. Small group — 13 person maximum.

  • Shipibo-trained medicine woman
  • On-site psychotherapist
  • Trauma-informed facilitation
  • Medical screening included
13 person max · private & shared rooms

$3,900 private room · $3,500 shared room

  • 50% offfor Mexican locals
  • 15% offearly bird · through Aug 11
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What’s Included

Everything held in one container.

  • Medical & psychiatric safety screening
  • Preparation and diet guidance
  • Two on-site psychotherapists
  • Shipibo-trained medicine woman with 15 years in service
  • Group transportation to / from Mexico City
  • Locally-sourced meals throughout
  • Comfortable, eco-conscious accommodations
  • Two Vine of the Soul ceremonies
  • Cacao ceremony
  • Traditional sweat lodge (Temazcal)
  • Kambo ceremony (optional)
  • Daily meditation, movement, and breathwork
  • Education for navigating non-ordinary states
  • Consensual dosing
  • Trauma-trained facilitators
  • Massage, Reiki, Acupuncture, and Astrology offerings
  • Free online integration course
  • One-month group reunion call
Our Team

Who you’ll meet at the gathering.

Alexa Iya Soro, MS, LMHC

Psychotherapist · Integration Guide

Heart-centered psychotherapist employing Depth Psychology, Internal Family Systems, Relational/Cultural Therapy, and Yin Yoga Therapy. Master's in Holistic Counseling & Eco-Expressive Arts; over 10 years dedicated to ritual healing, grief processing, and plant medicine.

Luke DeStefano, IHP2

Facilitator · Ceremony Guide

Ceremony facilitator with over 20 years creating safe spaces for personal and collective healing. Integrative Health Practitioner, Kambo facilitator, breathwork guide, and initiate of the Dharma Mountain lineage of Mahayana Buddhism. Immersive studies in Thailand, Vietnam, China, Laos, Nepal, Costa Rica, and Mexico.

Chule Ama

Massage Therapist · Bodyworker

Talented bodyworker and massage therapist with over 20 years in support of sacred ceremony work. Modalities include deep tissue and sports massage, cupping, and acupuncture. Carries the medicine of the Temazcal and the gift of many traditional medicine songs.

Karen Mukaw

Ceremony Musician · Workshop Facilitator

Mexican-born medicine woman with a powerful gift for music and song. Accompanies ceremony with sweet, playful, and powerful music to help guide each journey. Also a facilitator for Family Constellations Therapy and personalized workshops in drumming and sacred play.

Reciprocity

2% of our profits go to the Indigenous Medicine Conservation Fund — a non-profit working to preserve indigenous medicines and traditions in Mexico, Peru, and Africa.

A Decade of Gatherings

Some of what has come before.

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testimonials

Words of love.

I came in as a stranger and left feeling like I'd found a chapter of my own family I didn't know I had. The work was deep. The aftercare was deeper.

Maya R.
Autumn Council · 2024

The ceremonial container at Khungi is the safest I've ever sat in, and I've sat in many. You can feel the years that have gone into building it.

Daniel P.
Solstice · 2023

What I didn't expect was how much the tribe itself became the medicine. Six months later we're still in weekly contact. That doesn't happen by accident.

Sofia K.
Winter Threshold · 2024
The Process

Not a registration — a conversation.

We take extra care to make sure this work is a good fit for you, and every guest. The process of registration starts with a conversation, followed by a thorough medical intake reviewed by a medical doctor.

  1. 02

    Conversation

    A free 30-minute call with one of us. We get a vibe for each other. You ask all your questions.

  2. 03

    Medical Intake

    A thorough health and medication form reviewed by a medical doctor — your safety is the floor everything else stands on.

  3. 04

    Preparation

    Diet, intention-setting, breathwork practice. We walk with you in the weeks before you arrive.

  4. 05

    Retreat

    Five days at Espacio Khungi. Ceremony, integration, the tribe, the land.

  5. 06

    Integration

    One-month group reunion call, free online integration course, and ongoing access to the Sacred Counsel community.

Questions & Answers

Common questions, honest answers.

Anything unanswered here belongs on your call with us — that’s what it’s for.

What exactly is the Vine of the Soul?

It is a traditional Amazonian plant-medicine tea, prepared and served the way it has been for generations, and received in prayerful ceremony. Out of respect for the traditions that carry it — and the discretion this work deserves — we keep its common name off the page. If you know, you know; and if you don't, we'll gladly speak plainly on your call with us.

In our gatherings it is served by our Shipibo-trained medicine woman, inside a container built from fifteen years on the medicine path.

I've never sat with plant medicine before. Is this for me?

Many of our guests are meeting the medicine for the first time. That's part of why our process begins with a conversation rather than a checkout page — it exists to answer this question honestly, in both directions. First-timers consistently tell us the preparation, the small circle, and the depth of the team made all the difference. And if we don't believe this retreat will serve you, we'll tell you so and help you find what will.

How do I prepare? Is there a special diet?

Yes — preparation is half the work, and the tradition takes it seriously. In the weeks before the retreat we ask you to simplify: no alcohol or recreational substances, and a gradual step back from red meat, fermented and aged foods, fried food, and excess salt, sugar, and spice. In the final days the diet becomes simpler still, and we encourage quieting the other appetites too — media, stress, and stimulation.

You won't have to figure any of this out alone. Our complete preparation guide — intention, diet, daily practice, and the weeks after — is yours to download below, and the team walks with you through the weeks leading up to your arrival.

Download the preparation guide (PDF)
Can I attend if I take medications?

It depends on the medication — and this is the one place where complete honesty is a matter of safety, not preference. Some medications interact dangerously with the medicine, including SSRIs and other antidepressants, MAOIs, lithium, tramadol, and certain psychiatric and blood-pressure medications. Every guest completes a thorough medical intake reviewed by a medical doctor before being confirmed.

Please never adjust or stop a prescription on your own. If a change is appropriate, it happens slowly, with our guidance and your prescriber's. And if your medications or health mean this work isn't safe for you, we will lovingly decline — that answer is also care.

What will I actually experience? What are the effects?

Every ceremony is different, and no honest facilitator promises a particular experience. Most journeys last four to six hours and move in waves — visual imagery, memories, deep emotion, insight, and physical sensation. Some passages are blissful; some are challenging, and a challenge met inside a safe container is very often where the healing lives. Ceremony is carried by traditional song and music, and the full team is present with you from the first cup to the last.

Dosing is consensual, always: how much, whether to receive a second serving — nothing is ever pushed on you.

Will I purge?

You might — and it's welcome if you do. In this tradition the purge is not a side effect; it is understood as release. It can look like tears, yawning, trembling, sweating, laughter, or vomiting, and it often arrives with a sense of something old finally leaving. The space is prepared for it, the team tends to it discreetly, and no one thinks twice. Plenty of guests purge very little, or not at all — both are perfectly fine.

Do I have to drink?

No. Everything at Khungi is an invitation. You may sit in ceremony without drinking, or step back from any part of the retreat that doesn't feel right in the moment. The container itself — the temazcal, cacao ceremony, breathwork, the land, the tribe — carries real medicine of its own.

Who are the other guests?

A circle of fifteen at most. Every guest passes through the same doorway you do — a personal conversation and a doctor-reviewed medical intake — so you'll be sitting with people who were welcomed with the same care. Ages and backgrounds vary widely, most guests arrive on their own, and confidentiality is a shared agreement: what happens in ceremony belongs to the circle. People consistently arrive as strangers and leave as family.

What is the team-to-guest ratio?

Our core ceremonial team is five — the medicine woman, two psychotherapists, a ceremony guide, and a ceremony musician — supported by bodyworkers and house staff. With a full circle of fifteen guests, that is one team member for every three guests, and in ceremony the entire team is present in the room with you.

I have a mental-health condition or diagnosis. Can I come?

Tell us everything, and we'll answer honestly. Certain histories — psychosis, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and some seizure and neurological conditions — are firm contraindications for this medicine, without exception. Many others simply need a real conversation: our team includes psychotherapists, the intake is reviewed by a medical doctor, and the work is trauma-informed from screening through integration. If this path isn't right for you, we'll say so plainly and point you toward support that is.

What happens after I go home?

Integration is where ceremony becomes a changed life, so it's built into the retreat rather than bolted on. Each ceremony is followed by a morning integration circle; after you leave there's a one-month group reunion call, free access to our online integration course, and an open door to the Sacred Counsel community. Guests who want to land more slowly can add the two-day integration homestay with Luke and Alexa at La Fuente.

What should I bring, and what language is everything in?

Warm layers — highland nights are cool — comfortable clothes for ceremony, a journal, a water bottle, and whatever small objects belong on your altar. A full packing list comes with registration, and the cabins are en suite with king beds, so you can pack lighter than you think. The retreat is held in both English and Spanish.

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Mailing List & Seasonal Wisdom

One letter a season offering reflections to harmonize — from the practice, upcoming gatherings, and the occasional recipe from the kitchen.